When your best friend is Pregnant :)

Hurray! It’s a happy moment when you get to know that your bestie is going to become a mommy ๐Ÿ™‚

You heart is beating fast,all the butterflies suddenly comes to your stomach and you are jumping in joy .Indeed it’s a very special thing for not only for your friend but also for YOU.

You become overwhelmed with emotions and you start feeling a unsaid bond with the little fellow.

Let’s have a look on the things you do when your best friend gives you the,   GOOD NEWS ๐Ÿ™‚

1. Google Doodle : you start searching and reading everything single topic on pregnancy and care of mother and child.

2. Advisory Board : you keep on giving advises to your friend about each n every To do’s and Not to do’s. On call or over messages you just say Do this and don’t do that.

3. Imaginations : your mind suddenly go to the imaginary world where you see what you will do when you will be with the Little Angel and how it will feel when you will see your friend becoming and performing motherly duties.

4 . Shopping Hopping : This is the hot topic at your mind these days that what to shop for the would be mother,what books,what food,what things etc and yes for the baby also.You just want the best of everything for your friends and the baby.

5. Prayers : This is the most precious thing you do for your friend and the little one.It comes naturally. You kneel down before the Almighty God to take care of the mother and the child so well and give strength to both of them in delivery / pre and post delivery time .

These moments with your friend will make your relation more stronger and happier,Enjoy every single of it.

Yayyyyyyyyyyy ! Yipeeeeeeee ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚
God Bless! 

Faith n Love

R.J

Karma and Destinyย 

Life is full of surprises, a lot of action is involved and we are playing our part in it.Often we hear the terms like,As you sow so shall you reap,Do good have good etc.Sometimes we get unexpected gains and other times we may face problems without any prior intimation or infact without doing anything bad.Do you ever think why people say all this or what exactly is the scenario behind it?

Our Karma !  Yes, “The law of cause & effect” and this law is very accurate. Nomatter what you give , you will get sooner or later in same amount or plus.Karma is connected with our destiny.There is no good luck or bad luck it’s just the fruit of our deeds we performed recently or Long ago (might be in our previous birth also ). 

Sometimes we face difficulties with different people we are surrounded by. They can be strangers,relatives,most importantly family members or very closer people.We get unexpected hurts/ pain from them and wonder that we have done nothing bad to them but still they are hurting us. Why? The answer is karma , our karmic connection with them.Every person comes in our life has a reason/purpose.Either we are going to get something(Experience, Lessons) from them or to give them.It’s connected to the kind of act we performed with different people in our current life or the previous one or vice versa.

Now we came to know that we get what we offer .Our destiny is in our hands only it’s our choice to make it good or bad. Our karmas makes our destiny. If you will do good to a person,its destined that you are going to get the same in future no matter from the same person or the other but you WILL.Likewise if you are acting selfish or giving pain to someone you are going to get the same too.

Hence keep on doing good,love unconditionally,help people, get involved in charity or simply be the reason of someone’s smile .Know that you are filling up your deposits in the karma bank  and you are going to enjoy the amount and interest later on. 

God is watching ๐Ÿ™‚

Stay blessed !

Faith n Love 

R.J

Silence Please !

We are living in a democratic country .We all have right to speak,share our opinions and that’s really good.We should be communicative so that we can tell and ask for what we want / need. Buy sometimes we want to prove our point, win the discussion or argument & satisfy our ego but trust me being silent is far better than words.

You must be thinking what silence can do ? what is the benefit of saying nothing? Without uttering a word what we are going to get?

RELAX !

Let me reveal what are the benefits:

1. There is no need to talk all the time or in every topic/discussion.Being silent is a smart choice than to push ourself in waste & stressful arguments which cannot produce any good fruit.More over it increases your goodwill in the eyes of elders and people you are surrounded by.
2. By adopting silence we can preserve & restore our mental peace and energy which we unknowingly lose by         jumping into less important talks/gossips/arguments.

3. A moment of silence can give you much relaxation from all the stress we gather in our whole day from school, office, workshop, home etc

4. Silent people can observe things/people/situations better than a talking parrot because they can locate their intelligence and energy in much better option.

5. Most importantly we need some space in our life.All the time we are surrounded by a number of people to whom we communicate on daily basis and gather a clutter of thoughts wich makes us feel heavy and tired. Hence take some time for youself from your busy schedule ,sit silently and enjoy your own company ๐Ÿ™‚

I am not saying remain quiet and let the people take advantage of you or exploit you. Here the point is don’t get indulge in stupid things and talks which has no benefit and can make you even more stressed. Hence choose the wiser option and stay cooooool ๐Ÿ˜‰
God bless !

Faith n Love

R.J

Familyย 


Family is similar to a tree and we are like branches. We grow in different directions but our roots remains the same.

In our day to day life we usually forget the value of our family or being part of the family but we do realise it in joys and most importantly in sorrows because our family is always there for us when no one else bothers. 

Sometimes we think we are good enough for ourselves, can lead life on our own but that’s true to a certain point of time.After that we do need a family to share our life,our happiness, our sadness,ups n downs of life. No matter how often we fight or having different point of view but at the end of the day our family is always there to support us in difficult time,illness,sorrows and to cheer up us in joys and happy moments.


Having a family is a bliss. Cherish to be a part of it.

God Bless !

Faith n Love

R.J

Be your own friend :)

Friends are important part of our lives.We hangout with them,share stuff,parties,studies etc.But sometimes we may face such situations in our lives where we need ourself because it is not necessary that our friends would be there all the time.

Hence Be your own friend first. I know may be you find it weird at the first place but It is very beneficial for you as you are having your very personal all time buddy with you to whom you can share anything, anytime ,whom you can trust upon,you can hangout/shop with when nobody is available.

So let’s know how we can be the buddy with our own self:

1 . Accept yourself : First of all accept your self as who you are.Dont criticise your self for not being perfect on educational, financial, social grounds.Just take you as you really are.

2. Trust your self : Yes you can do what you want to do.Trust yourself more than you trust anyone else because you are the one who cannot let you down.So totally and willingly trust your own self for being there with you,help you and motive you.

3. Give time to yourself : Give yourself a good amount of time so that you can analyse yourself, know yourself, get to know what you are,what makes you happy and get along with your inner self.

4. Pamper yourself : Like you give treat to your friends do pamper yourself. Take yourself for shopping or spa,watch your favourite movie.Take yourself to a dinner date at your favourite spot.Go for vacations,buy yourself some gifts or join your fab hobby class.

5. Motivate yourself : Keep motivating yourself. When ever you feel low say it to you that you can get through it.Give treat to yourself on little achievements.Stand infront of the mirror and buck up that strong person standing infront of you.

6. Love yourself : Guys love yourself before you love anyone else.Know that you are unique, having amazing potentials in you.Respect yourself and be confident in your own skin.

God bless !

Faith n Love

R.J

Movie date with your crush ;)

Hey beautiful people . Hope you are enjoying your weekend. Some of us must be hanging out with friends n family ,having dinners,parties,enjoying in night clubs . Great ! Some are at a movie hall with their gf/bf/crush. Yes crush ๐Ÿ˜‰

Movie date with your crush is always exiting and full of confusion as well.Oh yeah because we got confused whether to watch movie or stare at our person ๐Ÿ˜‰ Lol 

Ok,So lets check out what happens when you are with your crush :

1 . First of all you will find and book the most comfortable seats.

2 . Your Will check the person sitting next to your partner wether they are looking genuine or jerk.

3 . While movie is going on your Will be asking a number of times to your person that they are sitting comfortably or not. Awww that’s sweet .haha lol

4. Your focus shifts from the screen to your crush’s face often.

5.   During the emotional scene you or your partner can hold the hands or lean on the shoulder.

6 . Omg ! Here comes the romantic scene and you cannot stop staring at your person like a crazy mad lover. ( Ahmnn don’t drool over .Haha )

7 . If your are watching some scary movie with your person,congratulations you are going to become a magnet to which your partner can be glued to ๐Ÿ˜‰

8 . Intervals can be little mood breaker though .LOL

9 . At the end of the movie you must be having sweet memories of your own movie,the movie date you just had with your crush ๐Ÿ™‚

Enjoy Everyone !

God Bless

Faith n Love

R.J

True Happiness :)

In today’s world we are running after achieving success, perfection, materialistic possessions, status etc and thinking that these things will make us happy.Day & Night we are struggling hard,doing overtimes, sleeping less to make presentations,skipping family time for official meetings,escaping holidays for business tours to achieve what we desire.

To have all these materialistic things we are actually forgetting the basic desire and need of a person, that is – True Happiness And believe me it’s not dependent on all those luxury possessions you wanna have.

Now,let’s know how to achieve this basic yet most impoartant desire of a person:

1. Achieve Small things : Don’t bound yourself to achieve big targets for being happy.Do small things on daily basis that makes you feel good.For example-Play with your kids, gardening,cooking,watch your favourite game or show.This will make you happy and in good mood on daily basis and not occasionally.

2 . Pamper yourself : Give yourself some treat,go for a spa,have your favourite food,shop for your wardrobe,have a new make over, have a trip to your favourite holiday destination,peruse your hobbies after all it’s your duty to make yourself happy and not someone elses.

3 . Exercise : Make your body move.Dance,zumba,Gym,Aerobics,Yoga or a simple walk in the park,just give your body the gift of exercise. This will not only make you healthier and fit but also will enhance your mood,lift up your spirit and self-confidence.

4 . Friends & Family : These are the core pillars of our life and joy. Spend a good amount of time with your family and friends.Share your problems,feelings, experience & thoughts and ask for their views,guidance,help and support. They are always there for you and will provide you best of everything.Believe me you will feel much happier and cherished among them.

5 . Help & Support : I know you are busy enough but make time to help people in need.The more you give people no matter it’s money or a simple advice the more it will give you satisfaction and happiness. Try to make people smile because of you and I am sure you will get much brighter smile on your own face.

6 . Think positive : We often hear this from our elders and friends but we just ignore it as if it has no value.Actually the reason behind this is big and real.This is an vibrational universe. What we think or what kinda thought we are having will attract the likewise thoughts and situations. When you are thinking good you will attract more good to you & when you are feeling bad you will attract more bad news to yourself.So choose wisely what you are thinking and make it a habit to think positively in all situations.

7 . Gratitude : Make gratitude your attitude. Thanksgiving in all manner is good. When you give thanks for something it automatically gives smile on your face and also at the face of the person you are giving thanks.The more you give thanks for the things your are having already the more life will give you reasons to be thankful.

8 . Unconditional Love : Love unconditionally.Don’t let the expectations and obligations ruin you relations.Don’t give love forcefully or overdo things for someone but if you actually love someone or people around you,love them without conditions. Love is a wonderful feeling, feel it and let others feel it through you as well.Trust me it will enhance your joy and will give you true happiness.

9 . Peace of mind : Relax your mind.Do meditations,chanting,practice mindfulness so that your mind can get deep relaxation and stress,anxiety,anger will no longer disturb your inner peace. All this will make you calm & bring joy in your life and in the life of your Nears & Dears as well.

10 . Prayer : Don’t forget to make sometime to kneel down infront of almighty God. Pray daily. I am not saying to spend most of your time in doing spiritual activities but to give just 5-10 minutes with pure feelings and attention towards God and his teachings.Method of prayer can be of your choice but your intentions should be genuine .After all our maker also seeks for our company and undivided attention for few minutes a day.This will make you feel more connected towards God and Inner Happiness.

Now make all these your daily routine and you will achieve True Happiness in your life for sure.

God bless !

Faith n Love

R.J